There is no right person on this planet. Nobody has truly ever found the right person because someone is not always going to make you happy.
There is technically no right person. Many people come into our lives for reasons and the lessons we learn are valuable.
Let’s break this down for those who may be upset about what I am saying…some may have found balance with another person that makes them the right person for them but if we speak the truth, not everyone is perfect all the time. To be in the unrealistic mindset that there is a perfect person who is always going to make you happy — will set you up for disappointment. This is part of why we are in this society in crisis and many families in divide. The divorce rate is at an all-time high, and many jump around to try to find the perfect match that will make you happy.
People tend to forget what happiness really is — and the easiest way to be happy is to find it within first. We must do the work to heal our childhood traumas. We will attract and attach mostly to the reflection of what is inside us that has not healed. Expecting someone else to make us happy is unrealistic. Sure, what people do for us or respond with kindness does make life sweeter — we all love romance, and kindness and love make everything peaceful and happy.
Happiness starts with having a gratitude attitude. Once you let go of all these expectations of everyone, you will release much disappointment and unhappiness. When we start to appreciate what we have, that is when we start to find happiness.
Fear and anger are products of the mind producing anxiety, turmoil, and unhappiness. All you have to do is spend time unloading the lack mentality, and the expectations of finding happiness waiting on others' mindset to start bringing in joy, peace, and happiness by doing the work yourself. You have the power to create fear, anger, and disease in your mind and body. That means, you also have the power to bring happiness into your mind and body. You are the right person for this job!
We learn from those who hurt us. It is an experience. We know that if someone has hurt us, that experience of what we went through with that person was unpleasant — that is knowledge. We should know to keep those who hurt us at a distance. The key is to break the cycles of these patterns that keep us locked into suffering over and over. Removing what is hurting us is logical. When we choose to let go of resentment but remember the unpleasant experience to not repeat it, we then choose to become smarter by that hurtful experience.
A shift in the mind needs to happen. To empower ourselves. We would all start to see ourselves and others function much better if we start looking inward to heal these patterns and find happiness within by truly focusing on the balance within— this shift is much needed in this world for the well-being of humans.
Find your Yes by doing the work within and break these chains of suffering by not expecting to find happiness waiting on others or things to make you happy. You are the right person to start finding your own happiness. Only then do we find the right person that matches and attracts our level and desires of the happiness that we seek for the well-being of our mind, body, and soul.
